You’ve been
there, I have been there, We all have, been there.
The Dark times,
days when you felt bogged down by everyone, when your pride was smashed by mere
words of the opponent, when you got frustrated by every single thing, infuriated and bursted out in tears within
seconds.
Samantha was in
the same situation, like all of us.
She left her job
because she didn’t like it and in return sat home jobless for months all
together, her love life had hit the rocks, her parents thought she was useless,
and Yes, for how long will your friends give you their shoulder and motivational
stuff like don’t worry , it’ll all be alright. After a while, her friends
stopped responding to her calls/messages because obviously its human nature to
get bugged by someone who just calls you to cry out loud about how miserable
her/his life is and how God was unfair to them and how they are allergic to
good luck.
After all the
litany of thinking, since that’s the only thing she could do while she sat at
home all this long, she came to one conclusion.
Its said an empty mind is a devil’s
workshop, and how far it held in Sam’s life was on her to decide. It’s funny how
the human brain is mired, how your thoughts shift from Positive to Maybe to Negative
to Evil.
SUICIDE, is the
first option everyone thinks of during these times but Sam had managed to
believe somehow that she Can and she Will. It’s not the right time for
her to die and let go of her life in vain.
So, she decided to
try her hands on the famous saying of being positive, how positive thoughts get
passed on to the universe and in return everything starts working in your
favour.
Her first agenda
being the most obvious and important was, getting a job herself instead of
relying upon her friends. Within a few days after facing people hanging up on
her, getting back no reverts, personally going up to people nevertheless, she
did manage to get a job.
She started
diligently working on it, setting goals one by one. There was no looking back
as she didn’t want to budge from her aspirations anymore.
She followed her
heart and now she’s a happily married business woman having a loving family and
being appreciated by all.
Besides all
this, she learnt a very big lesson in life….
Nobody knows you better than yourself, You know you can and should believe you will.
You think your
fat, work out and lose weight to look nice, you think you don’t speak well then
debate with yourself against the mirror till the time you gain confidence, you think
your dumb then read,learn and educate yourself so that nobody thinks low of you.
You have a
problem, solve it yourself instead of sulking about it and telling others.
This is for all
those who have been Once, Are or will be the Samantha in your life.
Good times don’t roll if you haven’t gone through bad times!
Love!
